This is an excellent month for developing new relationships. Cupid is ready to strike or has struck and you may well be dating a new beau. Love relationships this month are friendly, cheerful, and loving. Affection is a key feature and you will spend time out, dining and seeing friends, and at home cuddling on the couch.
You are extremely curious and need a partner who opens up and enjoys chatting about themselves, relationships with Taurus, Leo, Gemini, and Libra are favored. You want to learn a lot about your partner, but despite feeling that you are falling in love, you are actually revealing very little about yourself and that may become apparent to your new partner, and they may think you are just toying with them. You are a great listener right now, but you need to share too, or the promising relationship will stutter. Perhaps you are too cynical about love or scared to reveal yourself, those are issues you need to explore.
With the ruler of your solar 7th house-entering Aries this represents a positive new phase in relationships, however, there are certain challenges that have to be overcome, so the more codependent or need-based the relationship is, the more you might feel threatened. The way to restore and heal relationships right now is through greater tolerance and through having a little bit of space mutually.
It's also important for you to be the one who takes the lead in relationships, don't just allow things to happen, don't be a victim of fate, and don't be passive. It's time for you to initiate conversations, discussions, and problem-solving in a positive and proactive fashion.
Positive affirmations that reinforce your ability to believe in your relationship and believe in your ability to restore the relationship are very important. In fact, the power is in your hands in relationships, so don't underestimate the effect your own levels of positivity, vision, and optimism for the relationship can have in healing.
Your marriage will have an unusual path and will probably defy the norm, its course will be hard to predict and it can have dramatic up and downs. You and your partner may not be able to depend on each other as much as you would both prefer as there are limits to what you can both offer each other due to circumstances. One or both of you may not want to be tied down but may want something quite flexible this month.
Mercury is retrograde in your eighth house. This poses difficulties for household finances and if you are married or share a bank account, there can be disagreements or discord about how and where money is spent. The retrograde period indicates that debt, taxes, and issues about money are top of the agenda and often recent decisions have to be scrutinized or reassessed. It's also possible that you and your partner will blame each other for the outcome of recent financial decisions as there is a tendency to pass the buck until the dust settles and a plan is put in place.
The new moon phase extends from the 21st of January to the 5th of February, this waxing phase is the perfect fortnight for new initiatives, setting plans, establishing goals, starting anything prospective, and being proactive. This is the action phase, details below:
Mercury goes direct on the 19th indicating that the communications sphere, financial negotiations, investment decisions, asset purchases, property deals, and family-related decisions can go ahead.
Sun Sextile Jupiter at the new moon favors short-distance travel, education, exams, internet dating, and IT problems.
Venus Conjunct Saturn indicates luck in borrowing money and tax affairs. This is also great for sexual relations and a deeper understanding of relationships.
New romance is not favored nor are singles nights.
Mars goes direct in Gemini on the 13th bringing about momentum for leadership, entrepreneurship, negotiation, acting, and sporting activities or competitive activities. Recuperate and improving health is favored.
May 22 -June 21
"My energy circulates in so many ways. As a Gemini, I am highly communicative and the thirst to explore is my inner trait. You can call me restless! I have an impressive way with words, love to be social and be around fun. Fascinated by the world, I am here to experience things."
Geminians are lively, restless, quick-witted, last thinking, mercurial creatures who rarely stay in one place — physically or philosophically — for long, They are marvellous communicators and easily sway people to their own ideas and opinions. Geminians detest boredom — indeed, they run from it — and often preler spreading their considerable emotional and intellectual energies among a variety of tasks (and peoplel). This ability to do several things at once is typical of the Geminians dual nature‘ aptly represented by the Twins. Poorly channelled. however, the Geminians inability to settle down with one thing or one person can lead to the appearance of shallowness and a tendency to gloss over the important details of life.