It's totally normal when you don't agree on everything, especially for Aries who has strong opinions and is guided by gut feel, however, the success of your relationship at this juncture will depend on the way you express your disagreements, so rather than, 'You are wrong, how could you possibly believe that?'try,'I can see why you think that way, but I'm not in agreement, because...'

It’s often healthy to have vibrant debate in relationships as it encourages honesty and keeps the relationship interesting and engaging, so remember to agree to disagree, and set the problematic topic aside. If you find you are always fighting about the same little things and you can never reach common ground, then it may be time to take a step back and think about what's holding the relationship to together or if it's become tenuous.

This month is terrific for new love and dating, but do keep things in perspective as there is a tendency to get ahead of yourself or make assumptions that aren't correct about a new partner. Be careful to listen and don't join too many dots because you can end up with the totally wrong picture.

A new relationship will be mentally stimulating and will catalyze a heightened understanding of yourself and others. A new person who comes into your life can be like a breath of fresh air and offers to broaden your horizons, but the relationship may contain some confusion, so you have to stay alert to potential problems that need to be taken seriously. You may have a personal breakthrough when it comes to your relationships, as a result of last month’s advice, and you may feel compelled to take an entirely new path to reach your love goals, based on your new understanding.

You should avoid dealing with anyone new to you at the beginning of the month, as trust is very important and that cannot be established overnight. Be cautious in new contracts or when making significant purchasing or investments at the start of this month, it's probably better to wait until after the 7th to make these purchases.

As Mercury goes direct on the third, you will have an explosion of ideas and it's easy to get carried away. This is an excellent time for vision boards, affirmations and redirecting your thoughts to positive action.

However, as the month goes on you are able to refine ideas and make important decisions. You become more decisive and single-minded later in October and that's excellent for management.

As this month progresses you will feel a distinct shift in energy. Jupiter is retrograde getting ready to reverse into Pisces, and your ruler Mars is slowing down before it goes retrograde at the end of the month. So, this is a phase where things are slowing down and the focus becomes more internal rather than external. However, it's not a negative phase, it's more of a thoughtful, reflective phase as you become more aware of what is subtle and possibly illusive.

Use this month to finalize decisions and get into cruise mode where you have set things up and will not have to use a great deal of emotional or executive energy later in the year. This is not a good time to put off anything difficult that could be knocked on the head now.

The New Moon occurred on 25 September and the waxing phase ends on 10 October making this the richest phase for new goals, settings objectives and positive action.

Mercury also goes direct on the third making the period from 3-10 October excellent for new ideas, brainstorming, planning and setting strategy.

This is another excellent month for health and wellness goals or for anything that makes you feel good physically. However, sporting goals should be focused on the first half of the month as energy declines at the end of the month.

October is also wonderful for family events and celebrations. You could make wise decisions for your family’s long term prosperity.