What Does Your Zodiac Says About Your Emotional Intelligence ?

Sounds interesting? Read on to find out how you handle your emotions in the order of the most emotional to the least as per your zodiac.

You top the emotional chart. Although tough on the exterior, you are super sensitive on the inside, truly representing a crab. You have a tough problem dealing with your emotions. Your mood swings are unpredictable and you have intense emotions, especially when you are sad, this could weigh you down. It’s hard to judge what can trigger your emotions and even the silliest or trivial matters can offend you and can get you teary-eyed. Your home is your perfect heaven to deal with your emotions and with a hug from your loved ones you should start feeling better.

You come across as self-absorbed. While worrying is your favorite pastime, you also have a tendency to bottle-up emotions for a long, long period. The best is to vent it out rather than jeopardize your health and relations. It’s a common sight to see you getting into your shell when you are fearful, sad, or angry. Spending time amidst nature will help you connect with the universe and will reassure you that you are well-taken care of.

You experience intense emotions being one of the most emotional of all signs. Experiencing heavy emotions can be overwhelming for you. You are extremely sensitive and may get hurt easily. When you feel sad, you have a tendency to over-analyze every bit of the experience and get into a negative frame of mind. Also, you invite a lot of stress while you go through an emotional state. Revisiting past hurts, or re-living not-so-pleasant phases of your past is habitual to your personality, which could make you a pessimist.

In the event of a painful experience or a patch of sadness, you associate that with everything unfortunate that you have gone through, ‘a poor me’ syndrome. Battling guilt and indulging in self-blame often, what good does it do?

Although you have strong emotions, you find it quite difficult to express them, so you deal with them intellectually by engaging in activities or by socializing. These pent-up emotions can later have an emotional outburst, sometimes in the form of rage or temper. When feeling morose or sad, you will try to beat the purples by taking it to a place where you don’t have to face it. This act of disappearance could also mean you may get into your shell.

You tend to remain emotionally detached at times and can be quite outspoken without caring about others' feelings, which may, in turn, hurt others. However, this is not to say you are insensitive. You are unpredictable and judgemental of others.

You don’t hold grudges when someone disagrees with your viewpoints or opinions. Yes, you feel hurt though!

You are straightforward and speak up your mind, showing your emotional side is not what you are comfortable with. You do not want the world to see you vulnerable and you conceal your sadness and disappointments with your outrageous and aggressive nature. Sometimes playing extremely bold is your tactic to distract others from sensing your fear, jealousy, and nervous energy. You are bound to make impulsive decisions in an attempt to escape your pain. Even when you are hurt, it’s hard for the world to guess.

You are self-centered and see the world from your own perspective, but find it strange that others have a different opinion. You are highly opinionated and due to your fierce need to prove your individuality, it’s tough to get you to agree on something. Oh, you feel your pain and sorrow is insurmountable, and need to learn to handle your emotions in a better way. To rephrase it, you are like an immature child in an adult body. Interestingly, you secretly crave someone to baby you.

You have your own mood swings and it’s sure to bother people around you. You experience intense emotions and it wouldn’t be false to name your emotions as “legendary”. There is a self-destructive streak in you which can be easily sensed when you are angry, jealous, or going on a guilt trip. When you experience sadness, although you don’t hide it, you find it too overwhelming and difficult to cope up. There could be a showdown of emotions by being volatile or an impulsive reaction like lashing out at others. You know you tend to hurt your loved ones in this process, but little can you do about that. To vent out you may get involved in creative pursuits or some activity or may get into some addiction.

Showing your vulnerability to you is a sign of weakness and hence you resist opening up to people, even if they want to comfort you. You are highly opinionated and changing your mind or heart is nearly impossible, once you form an opinion. Forgetting grudges, is just not you!

Although you portray a brave front, deep down you fear losing your control over things as you are a control freak in some way.

You wear your heart on your sleeves and that comes naturally to you. Your emotions are intense in nature and you are demonstrative. You have a tendency to go dramatic in expressing yourself, especially when you feel sad or let down by others. You do not shy from showing your emotions and seeking people’s attention even when you feel low. Your pride is bruised when you feel rejected. In turn, you may react arrogantly and end up hurting people close to you. Acting mindfully will release you from the blame game and enable you to take responsibility for your feelings.

You have a stubborn streak to your personality and that can make your relationships suffer. Although asking for help is not your style, a little aid from others could help to get situations under control, when everything is going astray.

When it comes to expressing your feelings, you are easy-going and quite level-headed. Especially you are best at expressing your love and affection through your sensuality, making the most of all five senses. However, you do not want others to see you as weak or vulnerable and hence when you feel overwhelmed, you tend to disappear and go someplace to deal with it all by yourself then seeking help. You prefer to be left alone when you are experiencing sadness and may resort to a form of ‘escapism’ sometimes by overindulging in eating or sleeping. You have a tendency to suppress your feelings of anger which could sometimes take the form of sudden outbursts, however only when you are pushed beyond limits. How about resorting to self-compassion or venting it out to a close buddy to provide you the much-needed relief?

You are not comfortable with sudden changes and may experience restlessness. Unfamiliarity frightens you and you tend to avoid such situations. Stability and security is prime to you, else you may feel anxious. You get easily hurt as you tend to be extremely sensitive but due to your secretive nature, you often keep things hidden inside you.

You have a problem expressing how you feel, as harmony and peace in relations is more important to you and you prioritize other's feelings over yours. Your hidden emotions could be in the form of frustration or anger in the future. When you feel sad, you mask it with a bright smile to fool the world. You tend to be worrisome and may have terrible mood swings. You do not like to face any unpleasant situations in your life or surroundings, and the route to escape this is by refusing to acknowledge that something is wrong. ‘What you don’t know, doesn’t hurt you’, suits you fine!

Being lonely is something you worry about and you may cope up with this through some form of overindulgence. One of the most things that can bother and upset you is an imbalance in your relationships.

You, the Gemini can be characterized to be restless, whimsical, and easily overwhelmed. You experience intense emotions both the highs and the lows, which can drain you completely. You could have terrible mood swings, from feeling sad to melancholic, without letting people around you know the intensity of your emotions by putting up a cheerful face or by making yourself seem extremely busy. You prefer dealing with it in isolation. Your constant worry can cause you serious anxiety issues. When you feel sad, you could be consumed by negativity and tend to remain aloof. This could lead you to serious depression.

However, you tend to remain emotionally detached from people around and reacting or responding emotionally to others does not come naturally to you.

Being a happy, humorous individual, you prefer to look at the funny side of life even when you are down the dumps. When you are sad, you don’t like others to know, and calmly let those feelings come and go. However, keeping it to yourself can sometimes make you depressed or you may get into some kind of addiction. You don’t get angry easily, although when you do, it’s obvious. You may express it verbally or may even stomp your feet, or you may sound sarcastic, irritable, and restless, although shall quickly move on.

You have a philosophical, spiritual way of handling your pain and sadness. You are not the ones who will brood over things for long and will look for green pastures even when you are awfully sad and find deeper meaning during your trials and tribulations. You don’t have time to hold on to grudges and to settle scores, as you tend to deal with emotions in a simplistic, uncomplicated manner. In no time you could transform from being serious to your usual playful self.

Talk about your feelings and emotions, and you are quick to draw the curtains. You are not someone who likes public display of emotions or drama. So when you are upset or sad, you prefer to be left alone to deal with it. You have a practical approach to dealing with your emotions and tend to isolate and remain in your personal space working your way to finding a reasonable solution to your problems. Unsolicited advice from people, or if someone tries to cheer you up when all you want is some privacy, is sure to face your wrath. You may grow pessimistic, blunt, or even wallow in self-pity when you are angry or sad.

When you cannot express your feelings, you may throw temper tantrums or tend to get engrossed in some action or physical work. This is your way to escape or temporarily disconnect from your emotions.

Since you are keen to find practical solutions, you might mentally exhaust yourself by analyzing and over-analyzing your problems, when the solution can pop up just after a good night’s sleep.

You are a logical person and do not like your emotions overpowering you. Hence you constantly try attaining an emotional balance. However, when you feel low and are experiencing a sad phase, it can demotivate you and jeopardize your spirits. Feeling of hopelessness might plague you, as deep down you have a streak of pessimism and tend to perceive things negatively or with an element of doubt. You have a tendency to overthink and overanalyze issues, even the most trivial ones. This can mentally and physically exhaust you.

You are rigid and headstrong in regards to your ideas and expect perfectionism from people around you. No wonder, you are headed for disappointment. When you are upset or angry, you may not show it easily as what others think of you bothers you and you tend to remain shy. However, beyond a point, you are sure to surprise the world with your aggressive side, Capricorn.